First impression is not the last impression

It is said that ‘First impression is the last impression’, but I don’t believe in it. In my opinion, the first impression is not the last impression. The first impression is not always true. Believe me, half of the time, your first impression about people proves wrong. Many times, people whom you think good at first sight turned out bad, and people whom you think bad at first sight turned out good. Many times, a person turned out completely opposite of what you think of him or her at the first sight or meet.

Whenever you see or heard about someone, you create an impression about him or her in your mind. If someone is behaving very nicely, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is actually a nice person. If someone is behaving rudely, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is actually a rude person. You can’t decide about someone only by the first impression. You can’t decide about someone only in a few minutes. Sometimes, you aren’t able to understand someone whom you know for a long time, then how you can create an opinion about someone in just a few minutes.

Human behavior is very complicated. It is not easy to understand someone at first sight or meet. If you don’t know about someone’s life, behavior, circumstances, etc., how can you judge someone?

Never judge a person on how good looking he or she is. Never judge a person on his or her appearance. Beauty and appearance are a deception. I have seen good looking people who turned out mean. I have seen people with ordinary looks or clothes who turned out very nice. The soul inside is more important than the outside appearance.

The first impression is not always true.


22 thoughts on “First impression is not the last impression

  1. I completely agree- people always act like first impressions are so important and to an extent they are however you should wait till you get to know the person before you form your final opinion.

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  2. I totally agree with you.. first impression can never be the last impression..
    First impression is always the perspective towards the person created by us which is influenced by many other factors.
    But only through communication one can actually understand the characteristics of a person.

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  3. Yes. That’s so true. Well, in my case every person whom I met for the first time behaved as if they were so nice but when you know them completely then only you come to know about their true colours.

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  4. I agree…. May be a person behaved rude in the first meet may had a bad day or something but it doesn’t reveal his character…. And nobody can understand a person completely in his/her lifetime….

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  5. I also agree .. we cannot know people at first meeting … we will get to know only that thing which they want to show … so in order to have real knowledge of some one we have to spend good amount of time with them … then only we can better know some one …

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