I always have a belief that decisions play an important role in life. A good decision can make your life while a bad decision can ruin your whole life. In my post ‘Take your own decisions‘, I said that you should take your own decisions. Don’t let anyone take decisions of your life.
Every decision in life is important, but career and marriage are the two most important decisions in your life. Why am I saying this? Let me explain it.
Let’s first talk about career. To run a livelihood, you need money and money comes from a job. A career provides that job to earn money. When you do a job, it takes a considerable amount of time from your life. A job takes 6-10 hours every day of your life. Working hours may be more or less depending upon profession and country. If you don’t love your work, it becomes a burden and you can’t succeed in it. How can you succeed in what you don’t love? This is why the decision of a career is very important. You should pursue only the career that you want to pursue. You shouldn’t do something just because your parents wanted you to do it. Don’t let anyone decide what you should do.
Another very important decision in life is marriage. If your parents take the decision whom you should marry and if the decision goes wrong, you will regret it your whole life and spend your life blaming your parents for ruining your life. This is why only you should decide whom you want to marry. If your decision goes wrong then you can’t blame others for it. The decision of marriage should be entirely yours.
Career and marriage are also interconnected. If you don’t love your job, it makes you unhappy and unsatisfied. You start taking out your frustration and anger on others. It starts affecting your personal life, especially with your partner. Vice versa is also true. If you are unhappy with your partner and married life, it starts affecting you mentally, physically, and emotionally. It starts affecting your work. You can’t concentrate on your work if things are not going well between you and your partner.
You should take every decision of your life especially the decision of career and marriage because these decisions are very important in life. Only you should decide what work you want to do and with whom you want to marry. A job takes away a considerable amount of time every day from your life. This is why you must do what you love to do. After work, you spend most of the day with your partner at your home. This is why you should marry only whom you want to marry.
Both career and marriage affect your life very much as both are important aspects of life and most of your day spent at work and with your partner. This is why the decision of career and marriage is so important and only you should make these decisions.
Do what you love and marry whom you love.